Therapist Says These Are Only 2 Ways To Know If You’re With The Right Person

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1. Is it safe for me to expose my vulnerabilities to this person?

We all must reveal our wounds to our partners so that they can understand us properly. Triggers exist in all relationships (romantic ones and friendships), and they will always come up for us—the past never really disappears. In a healthy relationship, we should consider whether we feel comfortable revealing these triggers without fear of attack or fear that they will destroy the relationship. Instead of destroying everything you’ve built, being vulnerable in this way should bring you closer and help you grow.

Trust is a major part of this process. If you can’t assume that your partner will be compassionate towards your deepest feelings, flaws, and insecurities, it might be a red flag that you don’t feel emotionally safe, which is an essential part of any long-term relationship.

Remaining in a relationship where you don’t feel emotionally safe can be extremely painful and will hinder years of potential growth. A safe space is a must-have for people to deal with the triggers and not only confront them but transform them. Another way to phrase the question is to ask yourself if the relationship gives you the chance to heal your wounds, or if it keeps them open and encourages an addiction to toxic drama or chaotic tendencies.

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