Knowing if you’re in a relationship with your soulmate can be tough to figure out. Are you with the right person, or is it time to move on? According to therapist and TikToker Flynn Skidmore, there are some questions you can ask yourself when it comes to figuring out if your relationship is allowing you to grow.
The two ways to know if a relationship is right for you
In every relationship, there always comes a point when the couple must decide if they’re willing to commit to each other in the long term. However, if your life has been challenging and you’ve experienced betrayal or hurt in previous relationships, addressing these questions can be a daunting task.
According to Skidmore, we feel confused because we don’t know if feeling resistance is our gut or instinct trying to help us out, or if it’s just another way that our “unconscious relationship wounds” are preventing us from experiencing intimacy and being close with someone who might be a wonderful partner. But asking yourself two questions can make it all a little easier and help put the situation into perspective, figuring out if it’s time to finally settle down and commit or move on from the relationship.
