Don’t drunk text him.
When you are under the influence, a lot of rationale goes out the window. Texting the guy you are into when you are drunk can lead to a lot of regret the next morning. There is no telling the number of ways you may put your foot in your mouth if you go on a texting spree after having a few drinks.
Don’t be fake.
When it comes to flirting, one of the biggest rules is to just be yourself. We all want to be liked and accepted, so there is a natural tendency for some to begin mirroring characteristics or changing who you are based on what you think your crush will like. But you do not want to go into a situation portraying yourself as someone you are not. This will just set you up for failure later, requiring you to keep up the facade as you continue getting to know him. Lead with who you really are, which is 100% perfect and lovable. If they are meant for you, they will like you and appreciate you for all of your unique and beautiful intricacies.
Show him respect and attentiveness.
If you have gotten to the stage of flirting where a conversation develops, be sure to respect his time and listen to him. Being attentive can go a long way, as actually being in the company of a good listener can be rare these days.
