3. Enjoyment of touching and sex
Touching is a major love language for most men. If their previous partner didn’t share the same love language, they probably didn’t experience the level of physical affection and intimacy they desired. If a guy has gotten out of a sexual desert in his first marriage, he’ll probably avoid getting into one with the second. Therefore, men (especially those with high libidos) will seek out a woman who prioritizes sex in the relationship and wants to invest their time and energy in it.
4. Flexibility
In some cases, when a man initiates divorce, it’s because he finds his partner to be anxious and rigid. This leads him to feel constricted and stressed out to the point that it’s unbearable, hence asking to end the relationship. This can range from anxiety about children to feeling overwhelmed and a desire to be perfect, although this is unrealistic.
When a rigid perspective is combined with unacknowledged anxiety that someone doesn’t make any attempt to treat, it can be tough to live with a partner and can interfere with a relationship. Some people feel that being around this attitude will cause their children to fear the world, which is why, in a second marriage, men appreciate women who are mentally flexible and open-minded.
These are just a few things men value in a second marriage. For single women looking to start anew, these tips can hopefully inspire you or at least teach some valuable tidbits, like there’s no shame in seeking out a low-libido man or working out anxiety issues.
