4. A Little Nibble
The goal is to be playful, not draw blood, you’re not Dracula. Lightly bite his bottom lip before pulling away, or sneak in a soft nip on his ear. Bonus points for light collarbone nibbles. Done right, it’s the kind of move that’ll make his knees wobble.
Pro tip: Keep it gentle. If he flinches instead of groaning, you’ve overdone it. Hissing can be taken either way *wink*.
5. The Soft Suck
You don’t need to leave evidence (aka hickeys), but a touch of suction can be super intimate. Try it on his lip, neck, or even his fingers if you’re feeling bold. The mix of soft lips and light suction? Game. Changed.
Pro tip: Think short, teasing bursts.
6. The Tickler
In movies makeup sessions are usually really intense and serious, but we all know that a laugh here and there can make the whole thing even more fun. So if you don’t mind a giggle mid kiss try this. Use the tip of your tongue to trace his lips—ticklish, teasing, and the perfect cue that you’re ready to dive into something deeper. Playful and hot? Yes, please.
Pro tip: Go feather-light. The softer you go, the more he’ll squirm (in a good way).
7. The Sweet Stuff
Not every kiss needs to scream “bedroom now.” Sometimes you just want a moment of tenderness and silliness. Butterfly kisses with your eyelashes, Eskimo kisses with your noses—these aren’t exactly hot stuff, but they will make you feel close and comfortable and a little silly. Is that not part of real intimacy too?
Pro tip: Mix these in with the steamier stuff. It keeps things balanced—and way more real.
You’ll be surprised how one little change can reignite the spark. Now the only question is… which move are you trying first?
