4. Leave the past in the past and don’t hold a grudge
Everyone has a past, and people have arguments. If you keep rehashing the same problems or getting upset about something that neither of you has the power to change, it will lead to an abundance of negative energy in your relationship. Communication is important, but sulking or holding a grudge will get you nowhere.
5. Be direct
When you first meet someone and fall in lust, part of the fun might be in the chase. But when it comes to maintaining a serious relationship, it’s better not to play games. Being direct will get you everywhere. Don’t have them play a guessing game if you’re upset. Be direct with both desires and dislikes, and it won’t just make him stay in love—it’ll keep you happy, too!
6. Have a sense of humor about things
There’s a time and place for serious conversations, but having a good sense of humor and staying playful through the years ensures that he’s not just in love with you but considers you his best friend as well. Embrace joy and laughter. Have spontaneous adventures, and don’t be afraid to have a bit of banter to keep that chemistry going.
7. Be attentive and appreciate him
This is a two-way street, of course, but often, people fall out of love because they’ve gotten so used to their partner that they don’t show the same attention and appreciation as they once did at the beginning of the relationship. It’s the little things—cooking for them, planning a date night with their favorite activities, and complimenting them!
