4. Wearing makeup
Go natural or contour to your heart’s desire. Whether you’re a natural girlie or you prefer to go out in all-glam (makeup can feel like armor for many), no one has the right to comment on that, and it doesn’t define your beauty. You should go out into the world how you feel best and ignore what the haters say.
5. Career choice
Some women decide to stay home and manage the household and their families (which, let’s be clear, is a full-time job) while others go out and climb that career ladder. Similarly, if you opt for a job that people don’t think is ‘good enough’ or work in a non-traditional field, that’s totally fine. Your job contributes to society’s functioning, and all that matters is that you love what you do.
6. Education
College may be the right choice for some, and it may not be the right choice for others. Sure, you can argue the importance of having a degree, but there many ways to gain valuable employable skills that make you an asset to whatever industry you choose to work in. Don’t feel embarrassed about your education level—if you have the conviction, experience, and intelligence, you can accomplish anything you put your mind to.
7. Putting yourself first
As women, we often feel embarrassed or ashamed when we don’t put others first. We’re conditioned to act maternally and take care of others instead of ourselves, but it’s okay to prioritize yourself. In fact, it’s a good thing and can be an important part of self-care and establishing self-worth. We all need to recharge.
